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Life Math!

23 Mar

Math is fun only for a select few, historically. Even for the great BhArathi, the MahAkavi, it was “கணக்கு, பிணக்கு, ஆமணக்கு,” something that was not just a struggle but even bitter. So, it isn’t that hard to imagine how Math is for lesser mortals. If it’s that complex a subject in the academic syllabus, then how complicated it should be in Life? Is it any wonder the species that never tires of boasting about it’s extra 6th sense, keeps on failing to score even the bare minimum pass score in “Life Math!”

1+1 is never equal to 1.
That’s why lovers who marry, even after several years of being in love, are shocked to find they are still 2 distinct individuals and can’t merge into 1 being, as they’ve imagined. Nor can business or any kind of partners. When neither is willing to let go of one’s distinct sense of identity, the individual will remain as 1 and 1+1 will always be 2.

1/2 + 1/2 = 1

Lord ShivA, aka the One (he’s Mahadeva, i.e. God of Gods, after all) knew this (obviously) and was prudent to merge his spouse (kind of hard to say who is the better half among the PurushA & Prakriti) into himself and become ArdhanhAreeswarA (part ShivA & part Shakthi), when it comes to walking the talk, i.e. offering an experiential learning opportunity on how the Life Math is done (he happens to be DakshiNAmUrthy, the Adi Guru, as well), but the Homo Sapiens aren’t capable learners, apparently.

But even if we take a few lifetimes to elevate ourselves to contemplate & comprehend the Adiyogi’s teachings, t

here are a couple of ways the life math can be made to work

, in this lifetime itself.

1×1 = 1.

But for this math to work in life, both the 1s have to collaborate & work together to create the force multiplier effect. Unfortunately, the individual 1s mostly stop with the force and keep multiplying it.

This works well, at least for a while, in business partnerships, since partners usually bring different skill sets and capabilities to the table. Remember the 2 Steves who created the fruit company (ahem, that would be Apple).

1/1 is also =1.

But for this equation to happen in life, either of the two 1s should be willing to go down, i.e. let go of their individual identity or ego. Every husband & wife knows – by experience, obviously – that’s just a fantasy or fantastic dream.

This is how a Guru-sishyA relationship works though. Neither does a real Guru (Realised Master) show of his Allness, ever, disseminating all that s/he knows to any sincere seeker, nor does the disciple mind getting chiselled pertinently, until s/he loses any sense of individual identity left.

1+0 is always equal to one.
The 1 is the individual, with many an identity, including but not limited to, name, education, status, title, religion, region, etc. S/he imagines being unique & distinct. That’s the mind trap, but it’s a very attractive & deceptive trap, in which the individual is willing to remain, for lifetimes.

Tonnes of Karma keeps piling up and the repetitive birth-death cycle goes on and on…

The 0 is the divine that’s within the individual, not a digit without any value, but one that’s absolute. That’s exactly why the 0 added after any numeral increases its value manifold.

That 0 waits patiently for the 1 to first realise it & then merge with it or dissolve into it. When that happens, when the realisation dawns upon the individual self, when the creation realises the magnificent presence of the creator glowing silently within the creation, every single being in existence – not just the individual, then the 1 becomes the 0. That’s also when, 1 and 0, which were 2 before, transform into 1, i.e. The One!

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AUM PUrNam-adah PUrNam-idam PUrNAt-PUrNam-udachyate
PUrNasya PUrNam-AdhAya PUrNam-Eva-avashissyate
AUM ShAntih ShAntih ShAntih

PUrNam-idam PUrNAt-PUrNam-udachyate
PUrNasya PUrNam-AdhAya PUrNam-Eva-avashissyate
AUM ShAntih ShAntih ShAntih

PUrNasya PUrNam-AdhAya PUrNam-Eva-avashissyate
AUM ShAntih ShAntih ShAntih

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AUM That (divine / creator / real Self) is complete / whole; This (individual / creation / non-real self) self is complete / whole; Everything (in existence) manifests from that which is complete / whole (all of creation are manifest forms of the unmanifest divine or NhirguNa Parabrahmam).
(even) When (this – individual) whole is taken from (that – divine) whole, that which remains is (still) whole (omnipresent divine that is infinite & all pervading in nature).
AUM peace.. peace.. peace..

Be Joyful 😌& Spread the Cheer 🌻

~Swamy | @PrakashSwamy

5-Why!

15 May

ImageMost of us know and probably used 5-Why analysis for identifying the root cause of problems at work and to find the right solution. It is interesting that we associate problem solving tools such a 5-Why, Ishikawa, Johari, 6 Hats, SWOT, Mind Map, et al with solving only business problems.

Life’s fraught with problems too, in varying hues and proportion, for every one of us, who in many cases end up becoming a part of the problem than the solution! So, why not apply these tools to solving Life’s problems? Let’s begin with applying 5-Why, shall we?

Problem: No one seems to be happy with what they have or do in Life and are always aspiring or wishing for something more in anything and everything!

  1. Why are people unhappy? Because people always compare with someone or something else. My neighbor has a bigger car. My peer got more incentive. My cousin’s son got admission in a better college. KKR gets more crowd & star support than RCB… It is no different from kids comparing their toys!
  2. Why do people compare? Because that’s how they’re conditioned from when they were born till now. But while people accept comparison as a way of life to decide which one’s better, bigger, more, they don’t know whether what or who they compare with is the right benchmark. Your neighbor may’ve bought a brand new Hyundai Sonata, but a BMW 320D has a much better snob value at the Taj parking lot any day. Your cousin’s son may’ve got admission in VIT but he’s probably unhappy that he couldn’t get into IIT!
  3. Why don’t comparisons yield the desired result? Because people don’t know what they should really compare. What’s the point in comparing Sambrani and Agarbatti, when either will do just fine for prayer? If your need is to upgrade from that huge old 10 year old gray CRT box accumulating dust, then does it really matter that your neighbor has a 32” LED but your brother has a 42” Plasma. A basic HD ready LCD of any size is better than what you’ve today! Your battered old Santro and your boss’ swanky Skoda are both going to crawl in OMR at only 20 km/h and wait for 20 minutes in that toll plaza, daily! Only the business of belief thrives on such comparisons!
  4. Why do people persist with wrong comparisons that invariably result in misery? Because people really don’t know what they want. In the first 3 years of their career, everyone wants to Lead and be CEO of the company, someday, somehow. After 3 years, most realize that they may not even get to meet the company’s CEO in their entire tenure in the company and Follow the routine like thousand others. Retire at 40 or continue till 60? Just one more Property (‘ah, in those days we had an open terrace just for ourselves, which we don’t have in this flat’) or enough is enough? Become a Blogger or Bestselling author? ?s… ?s… more unanswered ?s.
    Forget Life’s mysteries like ‘what women want’ or ‘why does
    CSK always drag a match till the last ball’, which may eventually force you to rush to the neighborhood Trichologist. Fact is, we don’t even really know what we want, simply because we’re perennially short of valuable knowledge or validated information to anticipate, understand, evaluate and decide. About time we realized this isn’t fine and learn to appreciate what we’ve already got instead.
  5. Why are people unable to figure out the real problem? No, We Can’t, because we’re truly, madly, deeply stuck with I, me, mine, myself!

“Know Thyself to be wise, the unexamined life is not worth living.” Socrates knew what he philosophized!

“What have you lost, that was yours? What have you brought, that you can lose?” Krishna knew what he advised!

“Fool! The thirst for wealth is never quenched – Quench instead your desire for contentment!
Learn to be joyous, to be totally satisfied – With the fruit that your work will always provide!” Adi Sankara knew what he preached.

Looking back at the 5-Why, we clearly know that we don’t know. So the least we could do is to learn from those who knew.

Who am I’? is probably a good place to start the quest to find the root cause of all problems, for Ramana Maharishi sure knew the answer for that one! And this Life will become more meaningful, purposeful and blissful, if spent pondering that singular question!

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